So first off, I realize I use a lot of Tegan and Sara quotes in this blog, however, it's purely out of admiration, and love for their oh so talented lyrics. Plus they almossstt always have something to do with what I'm writting about. Anyways now that the proper acknowledgments are made, on to the topic at hand...those three little words people will do anything to hear, though apparently you dont have to do much now a days. Thats right, "I love you."
Those words are to describe an intense feeling between 2 people, whether it be romantic, or platonic. Now more so than not, people are getting the two confused, people are shooting out "I love you"'s everywhere, all the time. I hate to say this, but it is mostly with younger people, although, I have been seeing it in older people too, and I just dont get it.
I do believe that you dont have to be older to know what love is, I believe that you can feel it when your young, however, it's rare, and most often does not work out between those people because of the fact that it is an intense feeling, and overwhelming for a young age, where your not completely emotionally developed yet.
Why do people find the need to say those words as fast as can be acceptable?
how do you love someone if you've only dated them for a month? You can't possibly know this person enough to properly evaluate wether you love them or not.
That whole 'Love at first site' thing, yeah, I do kind of believe it's possible, once again, rare. But I think it's confused with infatuation, chemistry, attraction, and intuition.
To be honest, if i was dating someone who said i love you right away, it would be a huge turn off, for the following reasons:
1) They are obviously not mature enough to fully understand the meaning of love
2) It would remind me of highschool boys, not so fun.
3) It would loose the meaning of those words, so that when one day they actually may mean it, and it wouldnt make a difference, or mean anything to me
4) They have no concept of mature relationships, or time
So why do people think it's romantic when someone loves you after only knowing you a few short weeks?
It's not! It's cheesy, and false, and misleading, and totally totally misguided.
The worst is when as soon as a couple starts becomming official, they feel its customary to just say it right away. How are you supposed to feel the happiness the first time someone tells you they love you, the butterflies and the intense joy, if theyve said it to you a million times before, but haven't truly meant it?
The moral of the story today kids is, STOP SAYING I LOVE YOU SO MUCH! you're killing it, they're becomming words like 'and' 'hey' and 'what' way too casual.
**This Blog was writting on a generalized observance, I do realize not every single person is like this, it is a rant, get over it**
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